Woman keeps $20k in 'friend fund' with 4 other women, refuses to pull out her share to help husband with $60k down payment: 'Your wife sounds financially illiterate'

JR Atkinson • Writer and Editor

Sep 5, 2024 6:00 PM EDT

You could have a perfect marriage in every other way and money could still be the thing that tears you apart. It's the tie that binds, and the knife that severs. It's difficult to find the right balance of splitting the burden, especially when you don't have equal salaries. Usually, marriage means combining your funds, but to what extent? Are you forced to consolidate all your nest eggs or do you get to keep some secret stashes for yourself, in case something goes wrong? And then what about homeownership? Who pays for that and who gets if you split? All these questions are enough to make your head spin and swear off getting married in the first place. But, humans are romantics after all, and we do it anyway.

One couple found themselves in a tough situation when the prospect of buying a house meant a deeper look into each others' finances. Read on to see all the drama unfold.

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